Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

WHERE ARE THEY NOW?

GENEALOGY - PART VII
Are your ancestors harder to find than Waldo? 

Sometimes, finding family ties is next to impossible. Sometimes, a lead will sit dormant for years. Sometimes, information falls into your lap. Sometimes it all makes sense. Sometimes, you begin to recognize the bark on the tree because you've circled that stump more than once.


This week, I received an unexpected item from a cousin when she came across a birth announcement from the 1900s. No baby's name and only a partial date. The news was written on a leather postcard (I didn't even know there was such a thing!). But I had the answers to the missing pieces.

The point I'm trying to make, is that you never know where a clue may appear. This is why I suggest announcing to everyone you know about the project you've under taken. You'll be surprised where items will be found and how generous people will be with pictures and back stories.  Some places you don't want to overlook in your search are:
  •       Books           You may even find money, calling cards, and who knows what else
          (especially pressed flowers from a special occasion) hidden between the pages
  •       Family Bible   Some Bibles include a section that allows you to record special dates and
          events for posterity. If someone else in the family is keeper of this, see if they'll consider
          sharing the information.
  •       Cookbooks    Even if you don't find clues, you'll be able to stir up an old family recipe.
          Recipes may also give you insight as to the welfare of the family, especially during hard
          times like the Depression. I found a recipe for "cheese strata" that looked well worn and I'm
          sure served the family during times of need. For those of you who have never served cheese
          strata, it's layers of day-old bread stacked with cheese between the slices of bread; then
          generously coated with butter and paprika (salt, pepper to taste) and soaked with milk. It
          makes for a warm and filling casserole.
  •      Address books Finally, you can verify family, friends and acquaintances . . . and then
         wonder about other names that pop up that were never on your radar.
  •      Saved "special occasion" cards - We had a relative who never threw any card she ever
         received out and she lived well into her nineties. It was an act of bravery on everyone's part
         to go through every envelope and worth the trip down memory lane because we found her
         missing birth certificate. 
These are only a few suggestions. You know your family and their "hoarding" habits best. Some of your greatest treasures may be within the pages of your ancestors favorite reads. Happy hunting!

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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Saturday, May 31, 2014

MAKING THAT FIRST CONTACT

I had the opportunity to chat with CL Gammon about "Begotten With Love" on his blog talk radio program this morning. If you'd like to listen to the half hour show just click on the following link:  CL Gammon Program. CL is very charming and made me feel comfortable throughout the interview. Thank you CL for a fun half hour.

One of the questions he asked: ". . . were family members receptive?"  My experience has always been very positive. I treasure my newly found cousins and am grateful for all they've shared. It's been fun to discover personal traits we share; enjoy a poignant moment walking the path of our shared ancestors; and visiting old homesteads and cemeteries together.

If you've not yet contacted anyone my suggestions would be:

  • Write a note explaining who you are and how you think you may be related (you'll be surprised how often you may receive a response) especially if you include a picture they may recognize.
  • Share a story about your side of the family . . . one they may have heard and see if they may embellish it. You know how stories have a tendency to grow. My cousin could start a round of laughter when he talked about his donkey, Blue Creek Bill.
  • Grandma's recipe box may open doors (and mouths) especially if you bake a batch of her favorite cookies to share.
It seems the kitchen table is still the heart of the home and the point of connecting with family is to build on relationships. Happy hunting. 

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of  freelance writing and author of the eBook "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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Tuesday, April 15, 2014

HOLY WEEK

This is a busy week in the Christian/Judeo family. This is a Holy week, indeed. Many family gatherings. Many meals prepared and served. And stories told around the table. Some will be Biblical. Some will be remembrances. Many will be re-hashing the celebrations of the past. The ones that begin with "Remember when" are the best and as time goes by become family classics with a life of their own.

This is a time to remember family. To love them for who they are. To share the good times with a huge helping of laughter. To give thanks for the beauty in spirit of each person you meet, to recognize the patience and wisdom of your elders and the innocent folly of the young. To ask for forgiveness and to generously offer the same for hurts, real and imagined.

This is an ideal time to become the family historian for a moment and ask questions about your heritage, your family, the gifts, goals and dreams of those who came before you. To examine your own life's goals and if need be, make life altering commitments or decisions to follow a positive path.

However you celebrate this week, realize that you are spirit living a human experience* and absorb the wisdom of the messages received. Live this week to the fullest.

Peace, love and joy to all.

*I'm sorry to say, I cannot remember the book from where this quote came but it's a quote I have taken to heart. If you know the source, please share it with us.


Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of  freelance writing and author of the newly released eBook "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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BOOK TRAILER on YouTube 

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

THE BACK STORY on PHOTOS



When I was younger and looked at family photo albums with my mom or grandma, I couldn't get past the old-fashioned styles worn by the people staring back at me. I'd laugh until my sides hurt! These poses in sepia were pictures of strangers that couldn't possibly know anything about life, according to the mind of a thirteen year old. They lived in the past. What did they know about anything?

By the time I was twenty, we had lost all but a few of these keepsakes. The ones I had, I treasured. As my parents and grandparents passed away, I began to appreciate even more the memories these faded images recalled for me. I also began to recognize certain family resemblances, such as: my crooked smile from my father's side of the family; and the straight, blond hair of my grandfather in his younger days. But it still sends shivers down my spine when I look at my great, great grandmother with her slickered-down hair and frozen scowl and wonder if her looks are my impending doom?

It wasn't until I began working on our family's genealogy that I really began to understand the back story of photos. This was a lip smacking morsel of cake set before me. A pound of research and an ounce of creativity stirred into the fertile mind of a writer and BOOM! Thirty years later, the book, "Begotten With Love" became a reality.

Now, when I look at these pictures, they shape a glimpse into history which is both personal and worldly. So, you see, there is a lot to learn from photos: history, style, geography, relationships . . . but the one thing that doesn't change through the generations is the temperament of man. Each of us, as individuals (no matter which generation), struggles with temptation and sorrow, lust and greed. We cling to faith and hope and love and if we live long enough our courage and strength will be tested.  That's why I chose to write "Begotten" in story form, so the reader could share the experiences as the plots unfold.

Following are my observations of the pictures adorning my FaceBook page that you see at the top of this post. Studying pictures like these helped me to develop the personalities of the families in my book (along with documents and personal stories told and retold around the dining room table).

YOUNG WOMAN WITH BURRO (Grand Junction, CO) - I see a beautiful, young woman dressed for a special occasion (the style suggests 1890-1900). I've not been able to verify my supposition, yet, but it looks to me as though the baby is dressed in a Christening Gown. This is also around the time open hearth cooking was becoming a thing of the past and kitchens were being outfitted with wood/coal burning ranges. A blessing because many women were maimed or killed by embers falling from the hearth and catching these long skirts on fire.

FORGEMEN (Prattvile, AL) - This picture was a gift to me from the historical files of Daniel Pratt's Manufactory in Prattville, Alabama.  The company had changed owners (and names) over the years but had been continuously operational since the mid 1850s until 2013. To walk the halls of these massive buildings and hear the history of Daniel Pratt and what he accomplished . . . his innovations and generosity, was a profound moment in my life. If you'd like to learn more about one of America's first entrepreneurs, Google the "Honorable Daniel Pratt, A Biography, Eulogies on His Life and Character" by M.S. Tarrant.  To look at this picture and realize 3 generations of my family was a part of this amazing time in history is both inspirational and humbling.

IN THE GARDEN (Anacortes, WA) - John (in his mid eighties) tended to his garden; not as a hobby or for organic produce but for survival. His family had fallen on difficult economic times in the 1950s and could not survive without his hard labor. Behind him is the orchard where blackberry brambles grew wild. The abstract tee-pee structures (made from strips of cloth from an old sheet) gave structure for pole beans and a hiding place for a young girl who did not want to eat liver for dinner.

CHANGING TRANSPORTATION (Chicago, IL) - The history of this picture is still a work in progress. What I do know is that it was taken on Clark Street in Chicago (near north side) possibly next to the building where the St. Valentine's Day massacre (mob hit) occurred. I don't know what kind of car it was but the man standing along side is the driver and probably its machinist. It was a well-respected and exciting form of employment to be a machinist. Many of these men came from the ranks of blacksmith. This was a major transportation transition in our country and the world. Machinists in the early 1900s made as major a contribution to the world as Microsoft, Apple, and IT specialists everywhere do for us today.
What makes me laugh about this picture is the trail of manure alongside the car. Both forms of transportation shared the roads in Chicago in the 1920s and '30s.

Well . . . I'll bet somewhere in your home is a faded and dusty album filled with pictures similar to the ones I chose to display on my Facebook cover page.  Did you ever wonder whose faces were silently starring at you as you turned the pages? I encourage you to find out more. Tracing their history may uncover your richest legacy of all. Good luck!

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of "Begotten With Love."
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Tuesday, December 24, 2013

A CHRISTMAS BLESSING



May this year's celebration be filled with wonder and joy.
May love surround the family table and nourish the heart as well as the belly.
May cherished memories of Christmases past bring comfort and laughter.
And may we experience the gifts of the Christ Child tonight and always.

Merry Christmas!
From my family to yours . . .
Jo Ann V. Glim