GOODREADS.com is a READER'S DREAM WEBSITE

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Goodreads is an excellent site for both readers and writers. If you are not a member and you love to read, I would highly recommend signing up. This free site (with several million members) offers all the scoops on books and authors. Rate and review your favorite reads; peruse the newest books in your favorite genres in the comfort of your home; and meet new friends who share your interests in books.

If you're a writer, there are many programs established for writers (by writers) to help us advance and refine our works. Networking is key when we devote ourselves to such a solitary career as writing. Even though we spend a lot of time with characters running through our heads, we need to remember that they do not count as friends or staff! We still need to mingle with the real thing!

One of the opportunities Goodreads offers from authors to readers are giveaways of their latest work. Often times, the winners the of books will leave a rating/review for the author but it is not an obligation. Beginning Wednesday, August 20th (at midnight) through Friday, August 29th (at midnight) you'll have a chance to enter a Goodreads.com giveaway for a chance to win one of three autographed copies of "Begotten With Love: Every Family Has Its Story."

I hope you and your friends will take a minute to enter http://www.goodreads.com/giveaway/show/104692-begotten-with-love-every-family-has-its-story

GOOD LUCK!

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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SETTING the RECORD STRAIGHT

GENEALOGY - PART VIII
Genealogy is like a jigsaw puzzle . . . 

Pieces get lost or placed in the wrong spot.

Boy, everyday living can really smudge the ink on the family tree! If your family is like others, there may be: records of divorces; multiple marriages; children out of wedlock; 3,4,5 generations with the same name; cousins marrying cousins . . . well, shocking as this may seem, it happens. Family residences change, people die, and life goes on.

Remember, as the family's genealogist you're recording history, not judging behavior. But how do you find the truth, especially if it's an event that happened over a hundred years ago? And even if you do find it, do you record it? That's a question you and your family may want to discuss before you start to delve into the communal closet. Whatever you do, be accurate and honest in your record keeping. Otherwise, you and others may waste years trying to squeeze a record into your family that doesn't belong there.

Never rely on just one record or document to verify an event. My cousin and I were convinced that one of our grandparents' brothers had never married, until we found a wedding invitation from 120 years ago. It turns out he had married but his bride died within the first year of marriage and he never remarried. Now the question remains: was it disease or childbirth complications or accident that took the life of this young woman?

Two great default documents in the United States are:

• The Census - The census offers a clear understanding of the neighborhood in which our relatives lived and the professions of the neighbors. It may also reveal education, number of children, and if any boarders or servants lived in the home. A hundred years ago, relatives seemed to gather into pods and lived within blocks of each other, so checking a number of pages either side of your relative may provide even more clues and/or answers.
• Military Draft Records - These are more personal and offer more detailed information about an individual including a physical description (right down to scars and birth marks).  Addresses of next of kin are also included and the document contains the signature of the potential draftee.

If there are differences in records, keep looking until all avenues have been explored. We were faced with a situation where the matriarch was named Maria. Her oldest daughter was named Marie. Her son married a Maria (so we thought) but then her name disappeared on all later records. It turns out, this Maria (the assumed wife) was actually the sister-in-law of the elder Maria and had gone to live with the son while his real wife, Maggie, was in another state tending to her sick mother. Women in the late 1800s may be marked on the census as "homemaker" and in this case, that was true, it's just that it wasn't Maria's permanent home but it was her occupation. Complicated? yes. Impossible to figure out? No. Sometimes, it just takes a look at all the pieces of the puzzle to determine which pieces fit. Hope this information is helpful. Good luck with your search!

Remember: We are all part of a generational relay, so, live your legacy then pass it on.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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VISIT: www.BEGOTTENtheBook.com

AVAILABLE ON: Amazon.com/author/joannglim
BOOK TRAILER on YouTube 

IS YOUR BOOK A PAGE TURNER?

ARE YOU READY FOR PRINT?

There was an interesting item in Dear Abby's column Saturday, July 5th that speaks volumes to all of us who are Indie Authors. The letter to Dear Abby was from a woman whose friend's husband had authored a book (after years of writing) and the friend (the author's wife) had edited. The friend (who wrote the letter to Abby) was given a copy of the book and asked to write a "glowing" review on Amazon.com. Her conundrum? The book was awful! Not only that, it was difficult getting past the spelling and grammatical errors (and this was after it had been edited).  The friend wanted desperately to say something positive about the book but also did not want to lie. What was she to do? Abby's advice? Write something simple and to the point. If nothing else, you could say it was a "page turner."

It was a great response but it also demonstrates why Indie Authors have a difficult time earning respect in a field of very talented, professionally-represented writers. For those of us who are serious about our craft, we have made a commitment to:  the reading public; our fellow authors; and ourselves before launching a book to offer the best product possible. Here are five suggestions:: 

1.      Have it professionally edited by someone who knows book editing.
2.      Have your book professionally formatted and hire an artist to design the cover.
        Covers sell.
3.      Ask your friends to read your book with the intention of receiving honest feedback
        (story, grammar, everything). Explain that the copy they've received is what's
        called an Author Review Copy and what they are doing is helping you publish a
        polished product.
4.      Ask a professional to review your work. Never swap reviews or coerce people into
        liking your book. If friends want to write a review that's wonderful and gratefully
        appreciated.
5.      Always make a commitment to do your very best. Write the best story you know how.
        Present the product in the best light possible.  Surround yourself with professionals
        that can help you achieve your dream of being a published author. 

The best of luck to you . . .          

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

FOLLOW/Like: on Facebook or

VISIT: www.BEGOTTENtheBook.com

AVAILABLE ON: Amazon.com/author/joannglim
BOOK TRAILER on YouTube

MAKING THAT FIRST CONTACT

I had the opportunity to chat with CL Gammon about "Begotten With Love" on his blog talk radio program this morning. If you'd like to listen to the half hour show just click on the following link:  CL Gammon Program. CL is very charming and made me feel comfortable throughout the interview. Thank you CL for a fun half hour.

One of the questions he asked: ". . . were family members receptive?"  My experience has always been very positive. I treasure my newly found cousins and am grateful for all they've shared. It's been fun to discover personal traits we share; enjoy a poignant moment walking the path of our shared ancestors; and visiting old homesteads and cemeteries together.

If you've not yet contacted anyone my suggestions would be:

• Write a note explaining who you are and how you think you may be related (you'll be surprised how often you may receive a response) especially if you include a picture they may recognize.
• Share a story about your side of the family . . . one they may have heard and see if they may embellish it. You know how stories have a tendency to grow. My cousin could start a round of laughter when he talked about his donkey, Blue Creek Bill.
• Grandma's recipe box may open doors (and mouths) especially if you bake a batch of her favorite cookies to share.

It seems the kitchen table is still the heart of the home and the point of connecting with family is to build on relationships. Happy hunting. 

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of  freelance writing and author of the eBook "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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Indie Authors Are Here to Stay

There were 391,000 self published titles introduced into the marketplace in 2012 according to Bowker's Self Publishing Report: 2012 by Laura Dawson (reported in November 2013). That's an impressive increase of fifty-nine percent compared to new titles in 2011.

For a newbie writer/author this news may be staggering. How do you get noticed in a pool of literally thousands?  It's not done through karma, crystals, or a friend of a friend who knows this guy . . . The most successful authors I know have a business plan and author's platform in place.

Business Plan
It's important to set goals and budgets for everyday living. The same is true for publishing a book. The following suggestions may help you organize and focus your thoughts and needs:

• Set a realistic budget: 1) everyday expenses; 2) publishing and; 3) publicity. 
• Choose a support team of professionals to assist you in presenting the best product possible. 
• Continue to educate yourself to keep fresh on new trends and equipment. 
• Network with like-minded, goal oriented, positive individuals. 

Author's Platform
Publishers, agents, and readers want to know who you are and what your book is all about. Practice a 30-second encapsulation of the story that can be voiced in any given situation. Difficult to do if you don't first know who you are and more importantly who your audience is. My suggestions are to:

• Select the top two niches in which your book will draw the most attention.
• Identify those audiences according to age and interests. 
• Build you publicity and marketing around those findings  
• Study the competition: What do you have in common? What sets you apart? 

The good news is, indie authors are here to stay. The market place supports their work. Readers vote for favorite authors and titles with their kindles and androids. Recommendations spread in nano-seconds through social media. With forethought and planning, a new author may gain confidence in presentations and develop a loyal following.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40-year veteran of freelance writing and author of "Begotten: With Love"  available in print and soon to be available in eBook format. To learn more . . .
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Writing a Family History

Let's face it, we baby boomers are aging! We're entering a new decade, our seventh, to be exact. This new mantle of age means only this:

1. Our careers are winding down and
2. We now have the time and flexibility to pursue our passions

Many have chosen writing. The increase in Indie Authors bears this theory out. However, not all writers are interested in publishing for the general public. According to #Ancestry.com 128,000 baby boomers are researching family genealogy. Many are compiling their findings into books, along with personal stories and pictures, and giving them away as family keepsakes. What better gift to give than that of legacy?

Earlier this year, Stemma Books LLC, the publisher for "BEGOTTEN: With Love" (my book), polled 1,000 readers who had indicated an interest in memoirs. The results were surprising. We expected to capture a female audience between fifty-five and sixty years of age; had hoped for a younger group of twenty to thirty year-olds (the number of interested young adults surpassed our expectations); and were delighted to include men sixty-five and older.

There is a definite interest in all things family. Here are five suggestions for those new to writing memoirs to make your  story more appealing:

1. Include traits and talents when describing your characters (sorry for calling grandpa a character). The younger generation wants to identify with family whether its by hair/eye color, a gift for music/art, or a fun-loving spirit, to name a few of the many characteristics from which to choose.
2. Talk about the passion the people you're describing had for: God, country and each other. What were the values they held dear? What was their reason for coming to America? How did they make their living? 
3. Include details about the time period in which they lived. What were the latest inventions? What type of entertainment did they have? What type of transportation did they use? Make the story come alive. Allow the reader to be in the moment.
4. Location, location. location is the first lesson in any business book. It should also be included in writing a memoir. For example, did the family live in rural America during the horrendous dust storms of the 1930s that sandblasted paint right off the buildings? Were they living in Chicago in the late 1800s when it was so bitterly cold that they were ripping the wooden roofs off the outhouses to stay warm because of a shortage of wood? Whatever your family's story, share it in detail.
5. Share the history of  heirlooms. Take pictures and include them in the book. Something as simple as grandma's knitting needles passed on to a great-granddaughter may spark an interest in the craft or at least give the young woman an appreciation for the sweaters, scarves and mittens those needles made all those years ago.

If you are overwhelmed by the idea of writing a family history, there are many companies willing to assist. My personal recommendation goes to Nancy and Biff Barnes from #Stories_To_Tell_Books who offered sage advice when BEGOTTEN was still in development. Their passion is working with family historians from inception to completion. I suggest visiting their web site at www.StoriesToTellBooks.com to see what they've done for others and feel free to call 888-577-9342 for further information.

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Jo Ann V. Glim is a forty-year veteran of freelance writing and author of "BEGOTTEN:With Love."  
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What's In A Name?

Thank you for stopping by! I've been sitting in front of this computer screen for the last 6 hours trying to come up with a clever BLOG name. I thought I had it but here I am, 2 days later. . . revising! I wanted something reflective of who I am and why I write in the first place. So, the new name came down to this: I write for the love and passion of the topic and for the ability to tell the truth as I see it based on research and observation. To sum it up, there's "Only One Way to Write."

Seeing as this is the first blog, it seemed appropriate to introduce myself.  I'm a published, freelance writer. My writing skills have brushed a vast landscape of styles from commercials and one-liners to in-depth articles and two award-winning, columns: one weekly, one monthly.

I've also worked in  business management: human resources to be exact. It was my job to hire staff for temporary employment and coordinate a "lunch and learn" educational series for non-management employees interested in advancing their careers at a company where the division I was attached to employed over 11,000 employees worldwide.

Now, after thirty years of research that took me all over our nation and to Sweden, Author Review Copies of my book, "BEGOTTEN With Love" rolled off the presses in February.  This was a lifetime dream and a gift for my children and grandchildren who knew so little about their ancestry.

Many of the people I had asked to review "BWL," encouraged me to publish it for the general public. It took a lot of thought and deliberation and prayer, and with my hubby's blessing (yes, we work as a team), we decided to go for it.

Two exciting things have happened to date: "BEGOTTEN: With Love" is receiving 5-Star reviews on Goodreads.com; and a Judge from Writer's Digest, after I submitted the book for the 21st Annual Self-Published Book Awards, sent me a commentary I am going to frame!  Did I win? No. . . but you've gotta read this:

"Begotten: With Love takes a creative premise for telling a family's story and succeeds beautifully. The fictionalization of ancestral history works well and makes this family history read more like an interesting novel. It also makes it a universal story - readers who had grandparents or great-grandparents who came to America through Ellis Island, or immigrated from other countries, can see themselves and their families in this narrative.

The author does a great job of capturing time, place and character, with enough history thrown in to help readers place themselves in time.  The book is nicely written, and the hard work the author did both with her research and getting the book just right shows.

The cover is professional and eye-catching, making a reader want to pick the book up and find out more about these interesting people. While she should deservedly be proud of her achievement, the book can stand on its own and readers only need to know what a good job she did with it.  It's about what the author says in the end, after all, not about who she is."

The one critique the Judge had was that the book could stand a professional edit because of punctuation. Editors are our best friends and I cannot tell you how grateful I am for the feedback. I want to make sure I offer readers the best product possible. The edits are being done right now so the finished book (both print and eBook format) will be available in December.

Well, 'nuf about me. I'm glad you stopped by to visit.  Please feel free to leave a comment. I'd love to get to know you too. Hope to see you next Tuesday.


Jo Ann V. Glim, Author
"BEGOTTEN: With Love"
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