Wednesday, August 27, 2014

TRY SOMETHING NEW

I LOVE all the new technology and I hate it! I can't wait for the next generation of gadgets to come on the market so I can learn something new. But then I realize . . . I'm still learning how to use last year's latest and greatest. It's all so confusing! That dreaded learning curve! The curve that more resembles a straight line. The shadow that follows me every where I go. None of us would be complete without it. It's just some days, I wish it didn't stretch to the horizon.

But then I realize how much I really do know. How much technology has become second nature and improved the quality of the work I've produced and the enthusiasm that waned begins to return.

So, here I sit at 4:30 in the morning . . . awakened by genius (more like stumbling about from sleep deprivation) hoping this series of prompts will work and you'll be able to see the latest video.


As I test the image, all that appears is a field of blue where there should be an image of a rose. I hope it works . . . this time. If not, I know it's up and running on Amazon.com/author/JoAnnGlim, you can see it on www.Goodreads.com/JoAnnGlim, it's even on YouTube youtu.be/o4PD8Tas9os and Facebook (if you're a fan of "Begotten With Love") www.facebook.com/JVGlim.author and I realize publishing this project in 4 out of 5 avenues is p-r-e-t-t-y good but we'll give it one more try on this post. Ta-dah!

I would love the insight of others who have been in this type of situation. Where have you turned for help?

DON'T FORGET to enter the Goodreads Giveaway (ends this Friday) for a chance to win one of three autographed copies of "Begotten With Love." GOOD LUCK!
 http://www.goodreads.com/giveaway/show/104692-begotten-with-love-every-family-has-its-story

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love." For more info visit: www.BegottenTheBook.com

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

GOODREADS.com is a READER'S DREAM WEBSITE


SCHOOL'S IN SESSION - ADULTS RETURN TO N-O-R-M-A-L

Time to reclaim our lives; Enjoy a quiet morning . . .



Goodreads is an excellent site for both readers and writers. If you are not a member and you love to read, I would highly recommend signing up. This free site (with several million members) offers all the scoops on books and authors. Rate and review your favorite reads; peruse the newest books in your favorite genres in the comfort of your home; and meet new friends who share your interests in books.

If you're a writer, there are many programs established for writers (by writers) to help us advance and refine our works. Networking is key when we devote ourselves to such a solitary career as writing. Even though we spend a lot of time with characters running through our heads, we need to remember that they do not count as friends or staff! We still need to mingle with the real thing!

One of the opportunities Goodreads offers from authors to readers are giveaways of their latest work. Often times, the winners the of books will leave a rating/review for the author but it is not an obligation. Beginning Wednesday, August 20th (at midnight) through Friday, August 29th (at midnight) you'll have a chance to enter a Goodreads.com giveaway for a chance to win one of three autographed copies of "Begotten With Love: Every Family Has Its Story."

I hope you and your friends will take a minute to enter http://www.goodreads.com/giveaway/show/104692-begotten-with-love-every-family-has-its-story

GOOD LUCK!

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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Saturday, August 16, 2014

I DIDN'T SEE THE SIGNS

Very seldom do I mention the twelve years after my retirement that I spent with parents and loved ones who have lost a beloved child.  Why? I don't know. It was a poignant and healing time, one that I cherish to this day. Maybe that's why. It was sacred.

I'm not a counselor, credentialed or otherwise nor would I profess to be. I'm a grandmother who was devastated by the death of her born-still granddaughter. All I know is that through this overwhelming grief, somehow . . . someway, I wanted to offer a place where families could go to sense a presence of peace, a place to leave their shattered dreams, a place to begin to heal. By the grace of God and with the help of 57 volunteers, donations from numerous companies, and the cooperation from all walks of faith, the vision grew and became reality. The mantle has been taken up by others across our nation and the idea continues to grow as my involvement fades to the background and life marches on, as it should.

The reason I mention this at all is because like you, the Robin Williams suicide touched my heart. Most of us will never understand the demons he wrestled nor the pain his family endures now.

When death involves a child, there is no way to adequately answer the question, why? It doesn't matter to the parent the age of their child. Their child is still their child. Sometimes, the kindest response to this type of grief is our presence. Words are not necessary beyond, I'm sorry  or I don't know what to say. Sharing a precious memory or remembering the child by name may bring (even years later) a shower of tears. These tears are not from their grief but the joy of knowing you remembered. You see, what parents who have lost a child  fear most is that their beloved child will be forgotten. Worse, yet, their memory erased.

Death is unexpected, even when a person is terminal. But when death comes to a child or by our own hand, those closest cannot help but say, "I should have seen it coming!"

I cannot begin to process the intense pain and depths of darkness felt by a person living with depression and contemplating suicide. All I can say is don't do it. It's not a solution. There is help. If you and/or your family are living in this kind of turmoil, please reach out . . .  hang on, don't give up. Never, ever give up on life.

www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
1 (800) 273-TALK (8255)

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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Thursday, August 7, 2014

FINALIST!


Okay . . . I am wearing out the delete key on my laptop. I want so much to say something witty or clever or even intelligent and at the moment, besides swinging from that ugly, blubbery face women make when they cry from emotional overload (that makes our eyes puffy for 2 days if we don't keep it in check) and laughing hysterically from pure happiness, I cannot squeak out or write a simple sentence to explain to you (or my husband) what just happened. All I can manage to do is point at the message on the computer screen and in your case leave a picture.

To sum it up, "Begotten With Love" is a finalist in the Florida Writer's Association Royal Palm Literary Award competition. I could not be more thrilled! Hopefully, I'll be more composed by October 25th when the winners are announced at the conference banquet in Orlando, Florida.

I'll share plenty of pictures. I hope you'll come along for the ride and feel free to bring your friends.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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Wednesday, July 23, 2014

IDENTIFYING PHOTOGRAPHS

GENEALOGY - PART IX

Pictures Tell A Story . . .
Don't you love it when you find an old picture? Maybe it's one of your grandpa or his grandma or one of the siblings. Any way you look at it, it's a treasure.

Chicago, IL
If we're lucky, an old photo may have names scribbled on the back but if we're not, then the picture itself may offer clues that can help you figure out who, when, and where.

Don't be too quick to use an obvious clue, such as this car, to date a picture. No matter how new the car may appear, it's not a reliable source and neither is clothing. Clothing and transportation will help to establish an era but you'll need more information before determining a date. Actually, the best you may be able to offer on any photo is a span of time from 18xx-19xx unless you have some family history from which to draw a conclusion.

For example, if it's a photo of a family with children, count the kids. Identify how many are male or female. Guesstimate their ages. Then look at your family charts to see who is close to these kids in age (maybe with one or two children not yet born). We had a similar scenario in our family recently. Because the mother was dressed in mourning black, we were able to surmise this family picture was taken in the early 1890s. She was not mourning the death of her husband, he was in the picture. It was her mother. It may seem odd to have a picture taken at such a time but, actually, it was a common practice back then. Most people did not own a camera (hard to believe in this day of "selfies") and many families only gathered for special occasions, therefore, families relied on travelling photographers to take pictures during special occasions. By the turn of the century, photography studios were becoming very popular in big cities and family portraits became a popular gift to send back to the old country to show how well the family in America was doing.

But back to the picture accompanying this post. I wanted to point out the difference in the size of the tires on the picture above. It made me wonder . . . is that how it was built? Look how the back wheels torque outward. Is that to get traction on muddy roads? That musing may have helped ID the photo . . . because it determined the road conditions of the communities in that era. I have to admit, I already knew the picture was taken in Chicago. The backdrop is a familiar landmark. But for now, it was a matter of checking volumes of records at the Chicago Historical Society on the history of city roads. I learned there was a certain period of time when few roads in downtown Chicago were improved for the automobile. Most roads in town and the surrounding area were still dirt. Another monumental transition was from horse to horseless buggy and from the condition of the road in front of the car, it's safe to say this picture was taken during that transition period. So, was the building coincidence? Infamous? Germane to dating this picture?

The background, meaning the building itself, offers many clues. For instance, the large livery door may indicate that it's still a working stable. The "Lincoln" signs on both sides of the door is another massive clue . . . I've seen this building before, in the paper. I believe this building is on Clark Street on Chicago's north side where the St. Valentine's Day massacre (orchestrated by Al Capone) took place.

We may have found the why to taking this picture. Keep in mind that often times, tourists will stop at famous or infamous places for a photo op. I think this may have been the case with this picture. Because I know who was driving the car, I was able to check other records to see if he was living in America or visiting from his homeland. This also helped us close in on a date! In summary, it takes more than one document to understand the history of a picture.

Here are five points to help organize a successful hunt:

  1. CHECK THE BACK OF THE PHOTO - Look for notes, names, any information that may be on the back of the photo. Make a copy of it along with the photo and pass it around to the elders in your family. Someone may know something and be able to help you identify the picture.
  2. TALK TO FAMILY - They may have a copy of the same picture with a different note on the back. DO NOT WRITE on the photo itself, though. The paper will be very delicate and, I'm sure, you'd like to pass the picture on to future generations with whatever history you may be able to glean.
  3. SCAN THE BACKGROUND - Does anything look familiar? Any identifying buildings? Landmarks? Advertising?
  4. SCAN THE FOREGROUND - Are people sitting around the dining room table? Do you recognize the china? Teapot? Grandma's pearls? Who has them now?
  5. LOOK FOR PERSONAL ITEMS - If it's in a home, look at the artwork. Does something look familiar? Maybe something was painted or sculpted by the person in the photo. Recognize the percolator? A watch or necklace that was a gift for a special occasion?
Yes, it's a wonderful treasure to have a picture of a beloved relative but once you look beyond the face staring back at you, allow yourself to be caught up in the history . . . the mood of the world at the time it was taken . . . the personal circumstances that led to the picture in the first place. This may turn a frozen image into a living piece of family history.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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Tuesday, July 15, 2014

SETTING the RECORD STRAIGHT

GENEALOGY - PART VIII
Genealogy is like a jigsaw puzzle . . . 

Pieces get lost or placed in the wrong spot.

Boy, everyday living can really smudge the ink on the family tree! If your family is like others, there may be: records of divorces; multiple marriages; children out of wedlock; 3,4,5 generations with the same name; cousins marrying cousins . . . well, shocking as this may seem, it happens. Family residences change, people die, and life goes on.

Remember, as the family's genealogist you're recording history, not judging behavior. But how do you find the truth, especially if it's an event that happened over a hundred years ago? And even if you do find it, do you record it? That's a question you and your family may want to discuss before you start to delve into the communal closet. Whatever you do, be accurate and honest in your record keeping. Otherwise, you and others may waste years trying to squeeze a record into your family that doesn't belong there.

Never rely on just one record or document to verify an event. My cousin and I were convinced that one of our grandparents' brothers had never married, until we found a wedding invitation from 120 years ago. It turns out he had married but his bride died within the first year of marriage and he never remarried. Now the question remains: was it disease or childbirth complications or accident that took the life of this young woman?

Two great default documents in the United States are:

  • The Census - The census offers a clear understanding of the neighborhood in which our relatives lived and the professions of the neighbors. It may also reveal education, number of children, and if any boarders or servants lived in the home. A hundred years ago, relatives seemed to gather into pods and lived within blocks of each other, so checking a number of pages either side of your relative may provide even more clues and/or answers.
  • Military Draft Records - These are more personal and offer more detailed information about an individual including a physical description (right down to scars and birth marks).  Addresses of next of kin are also included and the document contains the signature of the potential draftee.
If there are differences in records, keep looking until all avenues have been explored. We were faced with a situation where the matriarch was named Maria. Her oldest daughter was named Marie. Her son married a Maria (so we thought) but then her name disappeared on all later records. It turns out, this Maria (the assumed wife) was actually the sister-in-law of the elder Maria and had gone to live with the son while his real wife, Maggie, was in another state tending to her sick mother. Women in the late 1800s may be marked on the census as "homemaker" and in this case, that was true, it's just that it wasn't Maria's permanent home but it was her occupation. Complicated? yes. Impossible to figure out? No. Sometimes, it just takes a look at all the pieces of the puzzle to determine which pieces fit. Hope this information is helpful. Good luck with your search!

Remember: We are all part of a generational relay, so, live your legacy then pass it on.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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Monday, July 7, 2014

IS YOUR BOOK A PAGE TURNER?

ARE YOU READY FOR PRINT?


There was an interesting item in Dear Abby's column Saturday, July 5th that speaks volumes to all of us who are Indie Authors. The letter to Dear Abby was from a woman whose friend's husband had authored a book (after years of writing) and the friend (the author's wife) had edited. The friend (who wrote the letter to Abby) was given a copy of the book and asked to write a "glowing" review on Amazon.com. Her conundrum? The book was awful! Not only that, it was difficult getting past the spelling and grammatical errors (and this was after it had been edited).  The friend wanted desperately to say something positive about the book but also did not want to lie. What was she to do? Abby's advice? Write something simple and to the point. If nothing else, you could say it was a "page turner."


It was a great response but it also demonstrates why Indie Authors have a difficult time earning respect in a field of very talented, professionally-represented writers. For those of us who are serious about our craft, we have made a commitment to:  the reading public; our fellow authors; and ourselves before launching a book to offer the best product possible. Here are five suggestions:: 

  1.      Have it professionally edited by someone who knows book editing.
  2.      Have your book professionally formatted and hire an artist to design the cover.
         Covers sell.
  3.      Ask your friends to read your book with the intention of receiving honest feedback
         (story, grammar, everything). Explain that the copy they've received is what's
         called an Author Review Copy and what they are doing is helping you publish a
         polished product.
  4.      Ask a professional to review your work. Never swap reviews or coerce people into
         liking your book. If friends want to write a review that's wonderful and gratefully
         appreciated.
  5.      Always make a commitment to do your very best. Write the best story you know how.
         Present the product in the best light possible.  Surround yourself with professionals
         that can help you achieve your dream of being a published author. 
The best of luck to you . . .          
Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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