GREAT LAST MINUTE GIFT IDEAS

TO DELIGHT/INSPIRE the READERS IN YOUR LIFE

Great Finds Under the Tree 

Uh-oh . . . you may be in trouble. Your gift may be a little late.  However, there's still time to find something . . . quite different!

COMICS: You may not recognize the name of my friend, author/producer/screenwriter, Alan Brennert but you certainly know his work! He has written for L.A. Law; published the book "Molokai," and more recently, "Palisades Park;" and put pen to paper for some of our most popular comic books (Batman/Cat Woman) which is what I want to tell you about because it's Christmas time. Alan has placed a number of items from his personal comic collection for sale through www.blastoffcomics.com. It'll be fun to look around and see what's still there. Even if all items are sold, there's still time to order one of his books. For more information about Alan, visit his website at: www.AlanBrennert.com.

CHILDREN'S BOOKS: There are two series every family should own, in my estimation. 
One is written by Brad Meltzer,  a #1 thriller author who could not find inspirational books for his daughter to read. Meltzer wanted to introduce her to the ordinary people who have changed our world. People like Rosa Parks, Einstein, Lucille Ball, Amelia Earhart, Abraham Lincoln, and (coming in January) Jackie Robinson. www.bradmeltzer.com

The other introduces children to American history through the fictional character of Rush Revere. Young readers are transported through time travel and befriended by a horse named Liberty. It's becoming a run-away favorite with the middle school set. For  more information visit: facebook.com/rushrevere or http://rushrevere.com. 

HOLIDAY THEME: Richard Paul Evans newest offering, "The Mistletoe Promise" is rapidly climbing on the NYT Best Seller list. If you know a reader that loves stories filled with hope, this may be the gift for them. Evans is a favorite author of mine not only because of his writing but because of his compassion for children and families that are struggling. I would suggest visiting his website to learn more about The Christmas Box House, I've had a chance to visit. Amazing place. http://www.richardpaulevans.com

HOT and STEAMY! USA Today and NYT bestselling author Melissa Foster, knows a thing or two about romance . . . and chocolate. Foster not only has a devoted fan base but she is one of the best friends an indie author could have. If you are interested in learning more about the Dreaming of Love series, visit http://bit.ly/dreamingoflove_paperback. If you're an indie author and want to learn more about self publishing www.fosteringsuccess.com.

As a twelfth-hour shopper, I hope this helps fill some of the voids on your Santa list. I wish you a Merry Christmas and the Happiest and Healthiest of New Years.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the award winning book, "Begotten With Love."  

FIRST PLACE - Biography - Published

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HERE'S TO YOUR SUCCESS!

We all have a perceived notion of what success is for ourselves and hopefully we are all striving to achieve that goal. To me, success is: small strides toward a greater objective; working through challenges and disappointments towards a positive outcome; creating a better world, a better relationship with others, a better me.

In my mind, we often confuse success with wealth and notoriety. Wealth and notoriety are neither good nor bad. It's only a form of measurement (by others) to determine how successful we've become. It's also an abstract nemesis to success and very deceptive. Many are misled by what they see, hear, and read. They think they know the truth and foolishly jump to conclusions.

If this sounds like the outline for character development, it is. Why does it work? Because it's the very essence of human nature.

If you're struggling with a script, look to your characters for help. Do they have all the success you want them to have? Are they still striving? Are they wealthy enough? Notorious enough? Let them talk to you. They'll tell you when they're through.

Good luck in all you do. I wish you well.

Thank you Book Reader Magazine for the publicity. It is much appreciated. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ENJOY MY BLOG - If you're looking for a new read or want to know more about a new author, take a look at Vinny's publication.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the award winning book, "Begotten With Love."  

FIRST PLACE - Biography - Published

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AND THE READER SAID . . . "GOTCHA!"

Last night, we were watching an episode of NCIS (the original version with Mark Harmon and crew) when Abbey, the brilliant scientific sleuth of the show, discovered an important clue: a plastic water bottle buried in the dirt of Vietnam next to an artifact from the sixties. This raised me from my eight o'clock stupor to mumble, "Vietnam was way before bottled water became an everyday phenomenon."

The thought of this scene nagged at me, even through this morning. It may have been they were trying to tie the artifact to the bad guy who was still in Vietnam in the here and now. But . . . that point wasn't and still isn't clear in my mind. Which brought me to two points I wanted to share with you about writing.

POINT ONE: Readers are so good at picking up on the tiniest of flaws. The funniest blooper I remember (in a movie) is an actress who was in the kitchen making a sandwich during a very poignant scene with her child. As she spoke, she slathered the peanut butter and jelly onto the bread and before putting the bread away, blew into the bag so it filled with air like a balloon, then added the twist tie. I don't remember any of the conversation that occurred after that. My eyes were fixated on the sandwich bag and the thought that this woman had never made a sandwich in her life!

As a writer, it is so important that we understand our subject matter: pay attention to details; know the mannerisms; understand the lingo; and totally enmesh ourselves in the experiences we are committing to paper.

Don't be shy about interviewing at least two professionals, if you have a scene planned that is out of your area of expertise. Ask them to review what you've written or better yet, role-play the parts. I have found my sources to be very receptive because they know they're going to be represented as accurately as possible. This rule of thumb is applicable to all genres, especially fiction.

POINT TWO: Ask for feedback from beta readers. Not family or friends who love you and may say what you want to hear rather than what you need to hear. Ask objective, love-to-read people to critique your work. There are groups of people who will help you in this way. One source with multiple programs for writers and a boatload of books for readers is www.Goodreads.com.

Good luck with you writing goals.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the award winning book, "Begotten With Love."  

FIRST PLACE - Biography - Published

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HOME OF THE FREE BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE

Today is Veteran's Day in America. A day to thank the men and women who have courageously sacrificed and served to protect our beautiful country and America's ideals. Your acts of bravery and compassion; your commitment to God and country; your love for your fellowman (and woman) are prime examples of the American spirit. We salute you and thank God for your service.

INDIE AUTHORS and THE LAW

WHERE DO YOU TURN FOR LEGAL ADVICE REGARDING YOUR WRITING?  DO YOU PROTECT YOUR WORK? DO YOU READ THE FINE PRINT? 

What you don't know (or ignore) can hurt you!

• Have you contemplated using your Facebook news feed page to attract readers through social media promotions rather than opening a "fan" page? Before you make that choice, you may want to read  Lisa C. Johnson's article "Avoid These 5 Social Media Pitfalls in Legal Zoom's 2014 November newsletter (sign up for the newsletter at the bottom of their home page).
• Are you one of the chosen few whose manuscript or book has been selected for movie rights? Have you checked into hiring an entertainment attorney to look over the contract? . . . No? You know an attorney (a relative or friend who said he'd look it over for you). Well, ask Jillian Stein, Director of Development, New Deal Studios what she thinks of that idea and, I'm sure she would respond the same way she did at the Florida Writers Association conference in Orlando when she appeared on the panel workshop Publishing with an Agent and said, "If you think an entertainment attorney is expensive, hire one that's working outside his/her area of expertise. Their mistakes could cost you thousands."
• Have you organized your records and protected your property (manuscript) as an LLC or some other legal entity? This may or may not be right for you but if it is, check with the state and the IRS to make sure you're in compliance and that you have a working knowledge of deadlines and expenses. The penalties are hefty!
• Have you copyrighted your work? I was thrilled when I received information from the United States Copyright office and realized my book was now a part of the Thomas Jefferson library. If you are ready to take that step or if you'd like to know what it entails, eMail http://www.copyright.gov for more information.

Whatever you do, take time to read the fine print. Ask questions. Research. 

I wish you well.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the award winning book, "Begotten With Love."  

FIRST PLACE - Biography - Published

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2014 FWA CONFERENCE HIGHLIGHTS IN PICTURES

Saturday Night, October 25, 2014 the Florida Writers Association held it's 13th annual Royal Palm Literary Awards banquet at the Orlando Marriott in Lake Mary, Florida. Nearly 450 authors, agents and producers from throughout our nation attended to honor the best-of-the-best of Florida's writing talent. We are pleased to announce that "Begotten With Love: Every Family Has Its Story" received First Place in Biography - Published. Congratulations to all award winners! Great conference. Beautiful venue. Top-notch presenters. Well organized and welcoming .

Beautifully presented and easy-to-find displays
in the FWA bookstore. Shelves were
 arranged according to genre. Lots of traffic.

The days were long and began at 6am! WOW, were they packed with information. More than once, I heard attendees say they wished they could clone themselves. It was hard to select which workshop to attend.

I would suggest using the "buddy" system (if you have a friend(s) who can go to sessions that conflict with the ones you're involved in.

No matter where you are in your goal of publishing; beginner, non-published, published, there is something here for everyone.

Delicious food.
Began to think we were on a cruise ship!

It was interesting how lively the discussion became
when the topic turned to outlining. Writers are definitely
divided into two camps and both presented plausible arguments.

A lot of insight was offered by professionals in the field of cinematography during a panel discussion on transitioning from the printed word to film or television

Kudos to the FWA for beginning a Youth Writers program for 11-17 year old students. They have access to training materials and professionals as well as access to networking outlets. If you're interested in learning more about this or any of the Florida Writers Association programs, please visit their web site at www.FloridaWriters.net.











The highlight of the conference was the Saturday night Stars of Florida Writers banquet and awards ceremony. The room was packed!






FINALISTS and their guests were encouraged to wear the top hats, bow ties and tiaras. Bill and I were happy to dress the part.









What an honor and thrill it was to receive this award. Thank you to all who made this possible.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the award winning book,  "Begotten With Love: Every Family Has Its Story."  

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5 WAYS TO "FIT A PITCH"

AT A WRITERS CONFERENCE

You've planned for this day . . . waited for this day; a day when you can pitch your book to a New York agent and/or a California producer. You've got ten minutes. TEN MINUTES! Are you truly prepared?

The questions you need answered depend on where you are in your writing journey. Are you pitching an idea? Is your manuscript complete? Is the book published? Do you have a marketing plan? Do you know who your audience is? This is not the time to shuffle your feet . . . know who you are! Know what you need. Know how to research to optimize your ten minutes.

You've spent a lot of time preparing your packet: synopsis, bio, platform, press release, etc., but what do you know about the person you're about to meet? I'm talking about getting to know the person, not just their client list. A little research will provide a wealth of information and help to make the most of their time and yours.

• )     VISIT THEIR WEB SITE - If their penchant is sci-fi and yours 1890 cookbooks, keep looking for a better connection. This should be a positive experience for both of you. 

• )     CHECK WHAT THEY POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA - Do you have other interests in common? Mutual acquaintences?

• )     READ THEIR BLOG - This may help you gain insight as to what they expect from the people they counsel. It may help you prepare a packet of information for them in the format they want and need. You may also find some of the questions you'd planned on asking are answered in their blog posts. What a plus to raise your level of questioning a notch. Let them know that what they wrote was a help.

• )     STUDY INTERVIEWS AND ARTICLES FROM OTHER SOURCES - This is a fly on the wall moment. You may find connections you never knew you had. Maybe attended the same school? Lived in a neighboring town. Have a passion for yoga. Your potential mentor may have also shared pet peeves with the interviewer. What a plus to know not to chew gum or wear the color purple.

• )     THE BIG TEN MOMENT - Have your packet prepared to offer (at the end of your meeting). In your mind, have the list of questions you'd like answered (in order of importance). No more than five -- but only present three. Begin with a smile and a sentence that begins something like this . . . "Say, I read in your blog that you . . ." And end with, "Me, too!" Isn't it nice to connect as kindred spirits and let the conversation flow from there?

Enjoy this experience and best wishes for a positive outcome!

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love."  

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SEMINARS / CONFERENCES -- PLAN AHEAD

Whether you're a seasoned pro or newbie when it comes to attending conferences, there's an element of excitement and trepidation. Surroundings are unfamiliar and living out of a suitcase is not easy but the prospect of meeting new people and learning new techniques or just plain brain storming is a heady elixir.

Eric Sheridan Wyatt host of the podcast "More Stories" www.WordsMatteresw.com/podcast offers sound advice in the nearly thirty minute show, Conquering the Conference with Confidence. If you'd like to listen to the program, click the link above and under "search" type in episode 6.

Listening to this episode made me evaluate the importance of planning ahead . . . especially for a writers conference. How often do you have an opportunity to meet people who can help you promote your career? The podcast covers the conference itself but I'd like to add 5 points for preparation before you leave home:

#5 - Prepare your elevator speech. If you're new to pitching your idea or manuscript or book, consider how you would describe your story in 15 seconds. Give those listening some meat, give them some flavor, and leave them hungry for more. If you've used your spiel for a while, tape record it, practice it in front of a mirror and make sure it doesn't sound tired and trite. Enthusiasm begins with the storyteller.

#4 - If you've not already printed business cards, this is the time to do it. Make sure it has all your contact information including your social media and web site addresses. Choose fonts that are easy to read and don't place information too close to the bottom edge. People who use a Rolodex will lose part of your information when they file it away.

#3 - If you'll be displaying your book, ask if a skirt will accompany the table. Bring your own, just in case. Ask how many other writers will be sharing the same table. Space is limited so make your presentation count. Prepare a table top poster to attract readers to take a closer look. Think through what else will make your book "Pop." Do you have a marketing budget? Consider giveaways for those stopping to visit you. Sales begin with merchandising.

#2 - Consciously think about what you're going to wear. You want to be comfortable. You want to be warm (bring a sweater or jacket). You want to look professional. If you plan to dress in costume, make sure it represents your story. This is your chance to shine.

#1 - As Eric says in his podcast, plan ahead. Choose two courses of action for the breakout sessions. Leave plenty of time to network. Enjoy the meals and entertainment. I would add to it: Take a minute before going to bed to review what you did during the day and organize for the following day. Also, take plenty of pictures. Be sure to document who is in them. If they are new friends, be sure to get the proper spelling of their names. I always consider it a nice thank you when someone sends a picture through facebook and mentions where we were and what we were doing.

Speaking of doing . . . I'll be at the Florida Writers Association Conference in Orlando October 23rd to the 26th at the Lake Mary Marriott. I have a book signing on Saturday, October 25th at 10:30am (Table 2). You still have time to sign up and attend! I hope to see you there.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love."  

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FACING SELF DOUBT

For the past couple of weeks, I feel like I've been standing in the eye of a hurricane; calm and clear-eyed while the world swirls around me. I have no reason for a sense of malaise. No illness. No drama. No lurking doom. With the exception of never-ending rain in Florida, it's actually been (metaphorically speaking) nothing but clear skies and beautiful sunsets.

Wonderful things are happening in regards to the book, such as being a featured author in both www.bookreadermagazine.com and www.bookworks.com (if you'd like to read the items, just type in my name and it should call up the articles).

A couple more weeks and we'll be at the Florida Writers Conference in Orlando and we'll find out if Begotten With Love moved further up in the standings. Even if it doesn't advance any further than it is right now, being a FINALIST in the Royal Palm Literary Awards is exciting and something to crow about.

I'm looking forward to the conference: excellent topics Thursday through Sunday, individual book signing Saturday morning, and awards dinner Saturday night. But I can't seem to allow myself to enjoy the possibility that I may have won . . . !

Which makes me wonder aloud: As writers, do we become so used to rejection slips that we do not know how to enjoy the dream of being a winner? Are we so used to hawking our wares at 99 cent sales or trumpeting free days that we forget all the years of work and dollars spent to offer a quality product for the reader? Do we begin to equate these pennies with our self worth? It's not only possible but probable . . . and fortunately, for most of us, a fleeting moment of self doubt.

Am I excited to be a FINALIST? You betcha! Do I think I will win? As with all the finalists, I have a chance. Will I win? I don't know. But until the day it's announced, I can dream.

I hope all of you will dream big as you finish your novel or shop it around. Work hard and reach for your goals. Set them high. Celebrate when you accomplish even a portion of what you've planned and as our GPS tells us when we take a wrong turn (if need be) -- recalculate.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love."  To learn more:

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STALKING DEAD PEOPLE

GENEALOGY - PART X
Finding Deceased Relatives is Not Easy . . . 

. . . BUT don't let that deter you. 

Are you perplexed in your search for the final resting place of a dearly departed relative? It's as though they vanished into mist. Not even a shadow remains. You have the last known residence, the name of next of kin, and yet there's no record of burial.

Fifty or a hundred years after the fact makes the search even more difficult.  As time passes, history evolves. People move. Memories fade. All that lingers are a few mementos, a whispered story or two, and the nagging question . . . where is he, she or they buried?

Sometimes, it's important to reconstruct the history (both world and personal) at the time of death. If there was a pivotal event, such as a war or medical epidemic: the person may be buried near the field of battle, in an unmarked grave, or in a foreign land. Sometimes, checking military records or reading local papers from that time period will help you find them and bring you closer to the answers you seek.

Immigrants from the turn of the twentieth century who were destitute may have found themselves at the time of their demise dependent upon the state for burial. Most cities had designated space for pauper's graves. These were unmarked communal graves where bodies (from babies to the elderly) were transferred from the coroner's office to the cemetery once a month and buried unceremoniously; sometimes a priest, pastor or rabbi was present. There were no records kept to my knowledge. In smaller towns with churches that maintain a graveyard, the pastor may have made accommodations for an individual who was destitute.  Even though there may be no stone to identify the grave, church records should offer more details.

Some immigrants as they aged, chose to spend eternity buried next to kin on the old sod. Check church and state records in European and Scandinavian countries of origin. They may be able to provide an avalanche of information. Ancestry.com has an extensive library of documents for foriegn records. Find-A-Grave.com (North America) is another excellent site for information.

One thing that's a challenge is this: burial grounds are confined and scarce in some foreign communities, therefore, they are reusing burial plots (after a respectable period of time) and adding new tenants. If you've seen a cemetery with weathered headstones piled against a wall or fence, this may be the reason why.

There are many unknown graves dotting the pioneer trails from the east to the west as settlers made their way across our beautiful country. If you have any idea where your loved one may have been headed, the local historical society may be able to help you find more information. If your relative owned a tract of land, it's possible there's a family plot nearby. If the burial took place on private property, the local library, newspaper office, historical society, county records building may offer you some clues or names of townspeople whose descendants live in the area.

Looking for a missing grave is truly a mystery worth pursuing. We all deserve our place in the family tree. Our life, our talents, even our foibles add richness and color. After all, every family has its story. 

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love."  To learn more:

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FORMATTING A BOOK

The best piece of advice? Hire a professional. With that being said, let's take a look at the process. Whether you hire someone, or do it yourself (which is fun), formatting demands attention to detail. These decisions affect profit.

If you're printing a book for distribution to family and friends, then it probably doesn't matter how many pages, size of type, number of pictures, or anything else because this body of work is a gift and labor of love. However, if you are looking to publish for the mass audience, then your choices will mean everything to the bottom line.

If you are a newbie, or indie author expecting to play in the over-crowded sandbox of seasoned writers, be prepared to offer your best work for publication. That means, answering a number of questions before the book is formatted, such as: manuscript length, pricing, paper choice, cover choice (hardback? paperback?), type of paper, size of book (5x7? 6x9? other?), type of spine, and who will be responsible for printing? There are many printers in every community and most will do an excellent job but there are only a handful recognized by the book industry and if you need assistance with distribution, you'll need to take that fact into consideration. Do your homework. Find out what type of services they offer and what they charge for the printing. Hypothetically ( based on per book expenses), if the printer charges $5 for printing, a book seller is expecting 55% from the retail price to offer your book in their store, and you have another $4 for "media" mail and tracking, plus a 2% publisher fee . . . you better price your book for a profit or find a part time job to pay for your passion.

The other component is, style. If what you've spent sleepless nights composing does not attract an audience when it's on the bookshelf, then it's time to evaluate why.  I believe one way to minimize heartache is by walking the aisles of your local bookstore. Find your genre and begin pulling books that catch your attention. What drew you to that one? Type style? Artwork? Colors? You'll begin to see a pattern form and from that you'll begin to witness the birth of your own body of work.

I'll pay particular attention to books in my chosen price range, estimate the number of words on the page (to determine the size of their manuscript), and then calculate if it's possible to use a similar formula and still make a profit. Sometimes the answer is, no. Why? They may have the backing of a large publishing house and are selling by volume. It doesn't mean you're not going to make it, it just means you need to be more creative and willing to forego a greater profit until you become more established.

Keep in mind, a professional format designer is an artist and will approach your project with that mindset. Once they understand the story concept and your vision, they will work miracles. But it's also important they understand there are parameters based on what I've already shared.

For those of you who have already published, would you like to share a picture of the cover of your latest book? How was your overall formatting experience? Any words of wisdom for those entering the field of writing?

Following is a limited glossary to introduce you to some of a printer's jargon. I hope this makes you more comfortable with the process and excited to complete your project.

Glossary of terms:
AIR:                              Breathing room between the lines of script
FONT:                           Print style
GUTTER:                      Margin facing the inside portion of the book
HALF-TONE:               Reproducing a picture into dots so printed photo quality is optimal
OUTSIDE MARGIN:   Typically 1/2" in from the trimline
PICA:                            Size of the print (in printer's terms) or (in computer terms)
POINTS:                       14-16 points is considered "Large Print" for the visually impaired
                                      10-12 points normal, comfortable text size
                                      9 points for photo descriptions and other notes
TRIM LINE:                Markings on outer edge of book pages used to guide the printer in                                                           cutting so books have a uniformly finished edge
SPINE:                         Portion of book facing outward (contains names of book and author)

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TRY SOMETHING NEW

I LOVE all the new technology and I hate it! I can't wait for the next generation of gadgets to come on the market so I can learn something new. But then I realize . . . I'm still learning how to use last year's latest and greatest. It's all so confusing! That dreaded learning curve! The curve that more resembles a straight line. The shadow that follows me every where I go. None of us would be complete without it. It's just some days, I wish it didn't stretch to the horizon.

But then I realize how much I really do know. How much technology has become second nature and improved the quality of the work I've produced and the enthusiasm that waned begins to return.

So, here I sit at 4:30 in the morning . . . awakened by genius (more like stumbling about from sleep deprivation) hoping this series of prompts will work and you'll be able to see the latest video.

As I test the image, all that appears is a field of blue where there should be an image of a rose. I hope it works . . . this time. If not, I know it's up and running on Amazon.com/author/JoAnnGlim, you can see it on www.Goodreads.com/JoAnnGlim, it's even on YouTube youtu.be/o4PD8Tas9os and Facebook (if you're a fan of "Begotten With Love") www.facebook.com/JVGlim.author and I realize publishing this project in 4 out of 5 avenues is p-r-e-t-t-y good but we'll give it one more try on this post. Ta-dah!

I would love the insight of others who have been in this type of situation. Where have you turned for help?

DON'T FORGET to enter the Goodreads Giveaway (ends this Friday) for a chance to win one of three autographed copies of "Begotten With Love." GOOD LUCK!
 http://www.goodreads.com/giveaway/show/104692-begotten-with-love-every-family-has-its-story

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the book "Begotten With Love." For more info visit: www.BegottenTheBook.com

GOODREADS.com is a READER'S DREAM WEBSITE

SCHOOL'S IN SESSION - ADULTS RETURN TO N-O-R-M-A-L

Time to reclaim our lives; Enjoy a quiet morning . . .

Goodreads is an excellent site for both readers and writers. If you are not a member and you love to read, I would highly recommend signing up. This free site (with several million members) offers all the scoops on books and authors. Rate and review your favorite reads; peruse the newest books in your favorite genres in the comfort of your home; and meet new friends who share your interests in books.

If you're a writer, there are many programs established for writers (by writers) to help us advance and refine our works. Networking is key when we devote ourselves to such a solitary career as writing. Even though we spend a lot of time with characters running through our heads, we need to remember that they do not count as friends or staff! We still need to mingle with the real thing!

One of the opportunities Goodreads offers from authors to readers are giveaways of their latest work. Often times, the winners the of books will leave a rating/review for the author but it is not an obligation. Beginning Wednesday, August 20th (at midnight) through Friday, August 29th (at midnight) you'll have a chance to enter a Goodreads.com giveaway for a chance to win one of three autographed copies of "Begotten With Love: Every Family Has Its Story."

I hope you and your friends will take a minute to enter http://www.goodreads.com/giveaway/show/104692-begotten-with-love-every-family-has-its-story

GOOD LUCK!

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I DIDN'T SEE THE SIGNS

Very seldom do I mention the twelve years after my retirement that I spent with parents and loved ones who have lost a beloved child.  Why? I don't know. It was a poignant and healing time, one that I cherish to this day. Maybe that's why. It was sacred.

I'm not a counselor, credentialed or otherwise nor would I profess to be. I'm a grandmother who was devastated by the death of her born-still granddaughter. All I know is that through this overwhelming grief, somehow . . . someway, I wanted to offer a place where families could go to sense a presence of peace, a place to leave their shattered dreams, a place to begin to heal. By the grace of God and with the help of 57 volunteers, donations from numerous companies, and the cooperation from all walks of faith, the vision grew and became reality. The mantle has been taken up by others across our nation and the idea continues to grow as my involvement fades to the background and life marches on, as it should.

The reason I mention this at all is because like you, the Robin Williams suicide touched my heart. Most of us will never understand the demons he wrestled nor the pain his family endures now.

When death involves a child, there is no way to adequately answer the question, why? It doesn't matter to the parent the age of their child. Their child is still their child. Sometimes, the kindest response to this type of grief is our presence. Words are not necessary beyond, I'm sorry  or I don't know what to say. Sharing a precious memory or remembering the child by name may bring (even years later) a shower of tears. These tears are not from their grief but the joy of knowing you remembered. You see, what parents who have lost a child  fear most is that their beloved child will be forgotten. Worse, yet, their memory erased.

Death is unexpected, even when a person is terminal. But when death comes to a child or by our own hand, those closest cannot help but say, "I should have seen it coming!"

I cannot begin to process the intense pain and depths of darkness felt by a person living with depression and contemplating suicide. All I can say is don't do it. It's not a solution. There is help. If you and/or your family are living in this kind of turmoil, please reach out . . .  hang on, don't give up. Never, ever give up on life.

www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
1 (800) 273-TALK (8255)

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FINALIST!

Okay . . . I am wearing out the delete key on my laptop. I want so much to say something witty or clever or even intelligent and at the moment, besides swinging from that ugly, blubbery face women make when they cry from emotional overload (that makes our eyes puffy for 2 days if we don't keep it in check) and laughing hysterically from pure happiness, I cannot squeak out or write a simple sentence to explain to you (or my husband) what just happened. All I can manage to do is point at the message on the computer screen and in your case leave a picture.

To sum it up, "Begotten With Love" is a finalist in the Florida Writer's Association Royal Palm Literary Award competition. I could not be more thrilled! Hopefully, I'll be more composed by October 25th when the winners are announced at the conference banquet in Orlando, Florida.

I'll share plenty of pictures. I hope you'll come along for the ride and feel free to bring your friends.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a seasoned veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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IDENTIFYING PHOTOGRAPHS

GENEALOGY - PART IX

Pictures Tell A Story . . .

Don't you love it when you find an old picture? Maybe it's one of your grandpa or his grandma or one of the siblings. Any way you look at it, it's a treasure.

Chicago, IL

If we're lucky, an old photo may have names scribbled on the back but if we're not, then the picture itself may offer clues that can help you figure out who, when, and where.

Don't be too quick to use an obvious clue, such as this car, to date a picture. No matter how new the car may appear, it's not a reliable source and neither is clothing. Clothing and transportation will help to establish an era but you'll need more information before determining a date. Actually, the best you may be able to offer on any photo is a span of time from 18xx-19xx unless you have some family history from which to draw a conclusion.

For example, if it's a photo of a family with children, count the kids. Identify how many are male or female. Guesstimate their ages. Then look at your family charts to see who is close to these kids in age (maybe with one or two children not yet born). We had a similar scenario in our family recently. Because the mother was dressed in mourning black, we were able to surmise this family picture was taken in the early 1890s. She was not mourning the death of her husband, he was in the picture. It was her mother. It may seem odd to have a picture taken at such a time but, actually, it was a common practice back then. Most people did not own a camera (hard to believe in this day of "selfies") and many families only gathered for special occasions, therefore, families relied on travelling photographers to take pictures during special occasions. By the turn of the century, photography studios were becoming very popular in big cities and family portraits became a popular gift to send back to the old country to show how well the family in America was doing.

But back to the picture accompanying this post. I wanted to point out the difference in the size of the tires on the picture above. It made me wonder . . . is that how it was built? Look how the back wheels torque outward. Is that to get traction on muddy roads? That musing may have helped ID the photo . . . because it determined the road conditions of the communities in that era. I have to admit, I already knew the picture was taken in Chicago. The backdrop is a familiar landmark. But for now, it was a matter of checking volumes of records at the Chicago Historical Society on the history of city roads. I learned there was a certain period of time when few roads in downtown Chicago were improved for the automobile. Most roads in town and the surrounding area were still dirt. Another monumental transition was from horse to horseless buggy and from the condition of the road in front of the car, it's safe to say this picture was taken during that transition period. So, was the building coincidence? Infamous? Germane to dating this picture?

The background, meaning the building itself, offers many clues. For instance, the large livery door may indicate that it's still a working stable. The "Lincoln" signs on both sides of the door is another massive clue . . . I've seen this building before, in the paper. I believe this building is on Clark Street on Chicago's north side where the St. Valentine's Day massacre (orchestrated by Al Capone) took place.

We may have found the why to taking this picture. Keep in mind that often times, tourists will stop at famous or infamous places for a photo op. I think this may have been the case with this picture. Because I know who was driving the car, I was able to check other records to see if he was living in America or visiting from his homeland. This also helped us close in on a date! In summary, it takes more than one document to understand the history of a picture.

Here are five points to help organize a successful hunt:

1. CHECK THE BACK OF THE PHOTO - Look for notes, names, any information that may be on the back of the photo. Make a copy of it along with the photo and pass it around to the elders in your family. Someone may know something and be able to help you identify the picture.
2. TALK TO FAMILY - They may have a copy of the same picture with a different note on the back. DO NOT WRITE on the photo itself, though. The paper will be very delicate and, I'm sure, you'd like to pass the picture on to future generations with whatever history you may be able to glean.
3. SCAN THE BACKGROUND - Does anything look familiar? Any identifying buildings? Landmarks? Advertising?
4. SCAN THE FOREGROUND - Are people sitting around the dining room table? Do you recognize the china? Teapot? Grandma's pearls? Who has them now?
5. LOOK FOR PERSONAL ITEMS - If it's in a home, look at the artwork. Does something look familiar? Maybe something was painted or sculpted by the person in the photo. Recognize the percolator? A watch or necklace that was a gift for a special occasion?

Yes, it's a wonderful treasure to have a picture of a beloved relative but once you look beyond the face staring back at you, allow yourself to be caught up in the history . . . the mood of the world at the time it was taken . . . the personal circumstances that led to the picture in the first place. This may turn a frozen image into a living piece of family history.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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SETTING the RECORD STRAIGHT

GENEALOGY - PART VIII
Genealogy is like a jigsaw puzzle . . . 

Pieces get lost or placed in the wrong spot.

Boy, everyday living can really smudge the ink on the family tree! If your family is like others, there may be: records of divorces; multiple marriages; children out of wedlock; 3,4,5 generations with the same name; cousins marrying cousins . . . well, shocking as this may seem, it happens. Family residences change, people die, and life goes on.

Remember, as the family's genealogist you're recording history, not judging behavior. But how do you find the truth, especially if it's an event that happened over a hundred years ago? And even if you do find it, do you record it? That's a question you and your family may want to discuss before you start to delve into the communal closet. Whatever you do, be accurate and honest in your record keeping. Otherwise, you and others may waste years trying to squeeze a record into your family that doesn't belong there.

Never rely on just one record or document to verify an event. My cousin and I were convinced that one of our grandparents' brothers had never married, until we found a wedding invitation from 120 years ago. It turns out he had married but his bride died within the first year of marriage and he never remarried. Now the question remains: was it disease or childbirth complications or accident that took the life of this young woman?

Two great default documents in the United States are:

• The Census - The census offers a clear understanding of the neighborhood in which our relatives lived and the professions of the neighbors. It may also reveal education, number of children, and if any boarders or servants lived in the home. A hundred years ago, relatives seemed to gather into pods and lived within blocks of each other, so checking a number of pages either side of your relative may provide even more clues and/or answers.
• Military Draft Records - These are more personal and offer more detailed information about an individual including a physical description (right down to scars and birth marks).  Addresses of next of kin are also included and the document contains the signature of the potential draftee.

If there are differences in records, keep looking until all avenues have been explored. We were faced with a situation where the matriarch was named Maria. Her oldest daughter was named Marie. Her son married a Maria (so we thought) but then her name disappeared on all later records. It turns out, this Maria (the assumed wife) was actually the sister-in-law of the elder Maria and had gone to live with the son while his real wife, Maggie, was in another state tending to her sick mother. Women in the late 1800s may be marked on the census as "homemaker" and in this case, that was true, it's just that it wasn't Maria's permanent home but it was her occupation. Complicated? yes. Impossible to figure out? No. Sometimes, it just takes a look at all the pieces of the puzzle to determine which pieces fit. Hope this information is helpful. Good luck with your search!

Remember: We are all part of a generational relay, so, live your legacy then pass it on.

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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IS YOUR BOOK A PAGE TURNER?

ARE YOU READY FOR PRINT?

There was an interesting item in Dear Abby's column Saturday, July 5th that speaks volumes to all of us who are Indie Authors. The letter to Dear Abby was from a woman whose friend's husband had authored a book (after years of writing) and the friend (the author's wife) had edited. The friend (who wrote the letter to Abby) was given a copy of the book and asked to write a "glowing" review on Amazon.com. Her conundrum? The book was awful! Not only that, it was difficult getting past the spelling and grammatical errors (and this was after it had been edited).  The friend wanted desperately to say something positive about the book but also did not want to lie. What was she to do? Abby's advice? Write something simple and to the point. If nothing else, you could say it was a "page turner."

It was a great response but it also demonstrates why Indie Authors have a difficult time earning respect in a field of very talented, professionally-represented writers. For those of us who are serious about our craft, we have made a commitment to:  the reading public; our fellow authors; and ourselves before launching a book to offer the best product possible. Here are five suggestions:: 

1.      Have it professionally edited by someone who knows book editing.
2.      Have your book professionally formatted and hire an artist to design the cover.
        Covers sell.
3.      Ask your friends to read your book with the intention of receiving honest feedback
        (story, grammar, everything). Explain that the copy they've received is what's
        called an Author Review Copy and what they are doing is helping you publish a
        polished product.
4.      Ask a professional to review your work. Never swap reviews or coerce people into
        liking your book. If friends want to write a review that's wonderful and gratefully
        appreciated.
5.      Always make a commitment to do your very best. Write the best story you know how.
        Present the product in the best light possible.  Surround yourself with professionals
        that can help you achieve your dream of being a published author. 

The best of luck to you . . .          

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NOTHING MORE AMERICAN THAN THE 4th of JULY

WHERE ARE THEY NOW?

GENEALOGY - PART VII
Are your ancestors harder to find than Waldo? 

Sometimes, finding family ties is next to impossible. Sometimes, a lead will sit dormant for years. Sometimes, information falls into your lap. Sometimes it all makes sense. Sometimes, you begin to recognize the bark on the tree because you've circled that stump more than once.

This week, I received an unexpected item from a cousin when she came across a birth announcement from the 1900s. No baby's name and only a partial date. The news was written on a leather postcard (I didn't even know there was such a thing!). But I had the answers to the missing pieces.

The point I'm trying to make, is that you never know where a clue may appear. This is why I suggest announcing to everyone you know about the project you've under taken. You'll be surprised where items will be found and how generous people will be with pictures and back stories.  Some places you don't want to overlook in your search are:

•       Books           You may even find money, calling cards, and who knows what else
        (especially pressed flowers from a special occasion) hidden between the pages
•       Family Bible   Some Bibles include a section that allows you to record special dates and
        events for posterity. If someone else in the family is keeper of this, see if they'll consider
        sharing the information.
•       Cookbooks    Even if you don't find clues, you'll be able to stir up an old family recipe.
        Recipes may also give you insight as to the welfare of the family, especially during hard
        times like the Depression. I found a recipe for "cheese strata" that looked well worn and I'm
        sure served the family during times of need. For those of you who have never served cheese
        strata, it's layers of day-old bread stacked with cheese between the slices of bread; then
        generously coated with butter and paprika (salt, pepper to taste) and soaked with milk. It
        makes for a warm and filling casserole.
•      Address books Finally, you can verify family, friends and acquaintances . . . and then
       wonder about other names that pop up that were never on your radar.
•      Saved "special occasion" cards - We had a relative who never threw any card she ever
       received out and she lived well into her nineties. It was an act of bravery on everyone's part
       to go through every envelope and worth the trip down memory lane because we found her
       missing birth certificate. 

These are only a few suggestions. You know your family and their "hoarding" habits best. Some of your greatest treasures may be within the pages of your ancestors favorite reads. Happy hunting!

Jo Ann V. Glim is a 40 year veteran of freelance writing and author of the Book "Begotten With Love." To learn more:

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